Fixes#11297.
Description
Description and design in the proposal #11297
Key changed/added classes in this PR
*DataSegmentPusher
*ShuffleClient
*PartitionStat
*PartitionLocation
*IntermediaryDataManager
* integration test for coordinator and overlord leadership, added sys.servers is_leader column
* docs
* remove not needed
* fix comments
* fix compile heh
* oof
* revert unintended
* fix tests, split out docker-compose file selection from starting cluster, use docker-compose down to stop cluster
* fixes
* style
* dang
* heh
* scripts are hard
* fix spelling
* fix thing that must not matter since was already wrong ip, log when test fails
* needs more heap
* fix merge
* less aggro