Revert "FIX: backup_restore.rb wants db user from user, not username (#28229)" (#28245)

This reverts commit 2e8273dcb47dbe8e66a9e1d24cfb52cdc963b155. We're seeing this cause issues in production multisite environments. Reverting while we investigate

lib/backup_restore.rb

@@ -135,7 +135,7 @@ module BackupRestore
     DatabaseConfiguration.new(
       config["backup_host"] || config["host"],
       config["backup_port"] || config["port"],
-      config["user"] || username || ENV["USER"] || "postgres",
+      config["username"] || username || ENV["USER"] || "postgres",
       config["password"] || password,
       config["database"],
     )