Fixes #2530 - Client waits forever for cancelled uploads.

After discussion on openjdk/nio-dev, we now wakeup the selector
after closing a socket, so that the SelectionKey can be removed
from the Selector and the TCP stack notified that the socket
has been really closed, so that it can send RST to clients.

Signed-off-by: Simone Bordet <simone.bordet@gmail.com>

jetty-io/src/main/java/org/eclipse/jetty/io/ManagedSelector.java

@@ -60,6 +60,7 @@ import org.eclipse.jetty.util.thread.strategy.EatWhatYouKill;
 public class ManagedSelector extends ContainerLifeCycle implements Dumpable
 {
     private static final Logger LOG = Log.getLogger(ManagedSelector.class);
+    private static final SelectorUpdate WAKEUP = new SelectorWakeup();
 
     private final AtomicBoolean _started = new AtomicBoolean(false);
     private boolean _selecting = false;
@@ -236,6 +237,7 @@ public class ManagedSelector extends ContainerLifeCycle implements Dumpable
 
     public void destroyEndPoint(final EndPoint endPoint)
     {
+        submit(WAKEUP);
         execute(new DestroyEndPoint(endPoint));
     }
 
@@ -885,4 +887,18 @@ public class ManagedSelector extends ContainerLifeCycle implements Dumpable
             run();
         }
     }
+
+    private static class SelectorWakeup implements SelectorUpdate
+    {
+        @Override
+        public void update(Selector selector)
+        {
+        }
+
+        @Override
+        public String toString()
+        {
+            return String.format("%s", getClass().getSimpleName());
+        }
+    }
 }