Fixes#4967 - Possible buffer corruption in HTTP/2 session failures
Partially reverted the changes introduced in #4855, because they
were working only when sends were synchronous.
Introduced ByteBufferPool.remove(ByteBuffer) to fix the issue.
Now when a concurrent failure happens while frames are being
generated or sent, the buffer is discarded instead of being
recycled, therefore resolving the buffer corruption.
Signed-off-by: Simone Bordet <simone.bordet@gmail.com>