Improve the out-of-the-box experience

Elasticsearch can be run in a few different ways:
 - from the command line on Linux and Windows
 - as a service on Linux and Windows

on both 32-bit client and 64-bit server VMs. We strive for a great
out-of-the-box experience any of these combinations but today it is
lacking on 32-bit client JVMs and on the Windows service. There are two
deficiencies that arise:
 - on any 32-bit client JVM we fail to start out of the box because we
   force the server JVM in jvm.options
 - when installing the Windows service, the thread stack size must be
   specified in jvm.options

This commit attempts to address these deficiencies.

We should continue to force the server JVM because there are systems
where the server JVM is not active by default (e.g., the 32-bit JDK on
Windows). This does mean that if a user tries to run with a client JVM
they will see a failure message at startup but this is the best that we
can do if we want to continue to force the server JVM. Thus, this commit
at least documents this situation.

To improve the situation with installing the Windows service, this
commit adds a default setting for the thread stack size. This default is
chosen based on the default thread stack size across all 64-bit server
JVMs. This means that if a user tries to run with a 32-bit JVM they
could otherwise see significantly higher memory usage (this situation is
complicated, it's really only on Windows where the extra memory usage is
egregious, but cutting into the 32-bit address space on any system is
bad). So this commit makes it so that the out-of-the-box experience is
improved for the Windows service on 64-bit server JVMs and we document
the need to adjust this setting on 32-bit JVMs.

Again, we are focusing on the out-of-the-box experience here and this
means optimizing for the best experience on any 64-bit server JVM as
this covers the vast majority of the user base. The users that are on
32-bit JVMs will suffer a little bit but at least now any user on any
64-bit server JVM can start Elasticsearch out of the box.

Finally, we fix some references to the jvm.options documentation.

Relates #21920

distribution/src/main/resources/config/jvm.options

@@ -47,9 +47,12 @@
 
 ## basic
 
-# force the server VM
+# force the server VM (remove on 32-bit client JVMs)
 -server
 
+# explicitly set the stack size (reduce to 320k on 32-bit client JVMs)
+-Xss1m
+
 # set to headless, just in case
 -Djava.awt.headless=true
 

docs/reference/modules/scripting/security.asciidoc

@@ -218,7 +218,7 @@ Security Policy either:
 
 * system wide: `$JAVA_HOME/lib/security/java.policy`,
 * for just the `elasticsearch` user: `/home/elasticsearch/.java.policy`
-* by adding a system property to the <<sysconfig,es-java-opts>> configuration: `-Djava.security.policy=someURL`, or
+* by adding a system property to the <<jvm-options,jvm.options>> configuration: `-Djava.security.policy=someURL`, or
 * via the `ES_JAVA_OPTS` environment variable with `-Djava.security.policy=someURL`:
 +
 [source,js]

docs/reference/setup.asciidoc

@@ -34,6 +34,10 @@ refuse to start if a known-bad version of Java is used.
 The version of Java that Elasticsearch will use can be configured by setting
 the `JAVA_HOME` environment variable.
 
+NOTE: Elasticsearch ships with default configuration for running Elasticsearch on 64-bit server JVMs. If you are using a 32-bit client JVM,
+you must remove `-server` from <<jvm-options,jvm.options>> and if you are using any 32-bit JVM you should reconfigure the thread stack size
+from `-Xss1m` to `-Xss320k`.
+
 --
 
 include::setup/install.asciidoc[]

docs/reference/setup/install/windows.asciidoc

@@ -119,11 +119,6 @@ Using JAVA_HOME (64-bit):  "c:\jvm\jdk1.8"
 The service 'elasticsearch-service-x64' has been installed.
 --------------------------------------------------
 
-NOTE: The service installer requires that the thread stack size setting
-be configured in jvm.options *before* you install the service. On
-32-bit Windows, you should add `-Xss320k` to the jvm.options file, and
-on 64-bit Windows you should add `-Xss1m` to the jvm.options file.
-
 NOTE: While a JRE can be used for the Elasticsearch service, due to its use of a client VM (as opposed to a server JVM which offers better performance for long-running applications) its usage is discouraged and a warning will be issued.
 
 NOTE: Upgrading (or downgrading) JVM versions does not require the service to be reinstalled. However, upgrading across JVM types (e.g. JRE versus SE) is not supported, and does require the service to be reinstalled.

docs/reference/setup/sysconfig/configuring.asciidoc

@@ -101,8 +101,8 @@ any changes in that file, such as:
 LimitMEMLOCK=infinity
 ---------------------------------
 
-[[es-java-opts]]
+[[jvm-options]]
-==== Setting JVM system properties
+==== Setting JVM options
 
 The preferred method of setting Java Virtual Machine options (including
 system properties and JVM flags) is via the `jvm.options` configuration

docs/reference/setup/sysconfig/heap_size.asciidoc

@@ -6,7 +6,7 @@ and maximum size of 2 GB. When moving to production, it is
 important to configure heap size to ensure that Elasticsearch has enough
 heap available.
 
-Elasticsearch will assign the entire heap specified in <<sysconfig,es-java-opts>>
+Elasticsearch will assign the entire heap specified in <<jvm-options,jvm.options>>
 via the Xms (minimum heap size) and Xmx (maximum heap size) settings.
 
 The value for these setting depends on the amount of RAM available on