* [ML] add num_matches and preferred_to_categories to category defintion objects (#54214)
This adds two new fields to category definitions.
- `num_matches` indicating how many documents have been seen by this category
- `preferred_to_categories` indicating which other categories this particular category supersedes when messages are categorized.
These fields are only guaranteed to be up to date after a `_flush` or `_close`
native change: https://github.com/elastic/ml-cpp/pull/1062
* adjusting for backport
Lisa Cawley
Benjamin Trent
James Rodewig