This is related to #28898. This PR implements pooling of bytes arrays
when reading from the wire in the http server transport. In order to do
this, we must integrate with netty reference counting. That manner in
which this PR implements this is making Pages in InboundChannelBuffer
reference counted. When we accessing the underlying page to pass to
netty, we retain the page. When netty releases its bytebuf, it releases
the underlying pages we have passed to it.
This is related to #27260. Currently when we queue a write with a
channel we set OP_WRITE and wait until the next selection loop to flush
the write. However, if the channel does not have a pending write, it
is probably ready to flush. This PR implements an optimistic flush logic
that will attempt this flush.