This commit updates the list of system index names to be complete and
correct for Kibana and APM. The pattern `.kibana*` is too inclusive for
system indices and actually includes the
`.kibana-event-log-${version}-${int}` pattern for the Kibana event log,
which should only be hidden and not a system index. Additionally, the
`.apm-custom-link` index was not included in the list of system
indices. Finally, the reporting pattern has been updated to match that
of the permissions given to the kibana_system role.
Backport of #63950