The Document Level Security BitSet Cache (see #43669) had a default
configuration of "small size, long lifetime". However, this is not
a very useful default as the cache is most valuable for BitSets that
take a long time to construct, which is (generally speaking) the same
ones that operate over a large number of documents and contain many
bytes.
This commit changes the cache to be "large size, short lifetime" so
that it can hold bitsets representing billions of documents, but
releases memory quickly.
The new defaults are 10% of heap, and 2 hours.
This also adds some logging when a single BitSet exceeds the size of
the cache and when the cache is full.
Backport of: #50535
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