Currently in the transport-nio work we connect and bind channels on the
a thread before the channel is registered with a selector. Additionally,
it is at this point that we set all the socket options. This commit
moves these operations onto the event-loop after the channel has been
registered with a selector. It attempts to set the socket options for a
non-server channel at registration time. If that fails, it will attempt
to set the options after the channel is connected. This should fix
#41071.
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